When social networking first became big and our best option was still MySpace for connecting with friends and colleagues, the world was simple and our minds were at peace. But now the world of social networking has evolved and become involved and some lines have become clouded. All of this change has sparked a new wave of multiple personalities across the web where social networkers try desperately to create a perforated line between friends and business.
When social first went social most of us endeavored to connect with friends, but the inevitable business marketing and internet marketing boom came into play and most people soon realized that they could do more with their social personalities to gain exposure for their business. At the same time the question of how to keep business and pleasure separate delivered more stress than traffic for many businesses. As followers, fans and friends increased so did the difficulty of keeping personal posts from trickling down the business pipeline.
The truth is you can never predict what a friend may post on your social networking profile. Forget friends even, what about cousins sharing family drama or jealous exes sharing dirty little secrets? Is this really the kind of information you want an employer or client to read about? Probably not. And this is where most people get the idea to create multiple personalities in social networks to serve both the business and pleasure side of being social, but maintaining those personalities takes a toll on their real self.
Where the social multiple personality disorder really takes its toll is in maintaining multiple identities and keeping things sincere and transparent. How much to hide here and how much to tell there can put your head in a bit of a spin. There is nothing wrong with being personal on your business profile. Quite the opposite is true. In many cases, being transparent and showing personality are the best ways to actually build stronger business ties. However posting pictures of a drunken mishap would obviously not be a good brand builder (unless your brand is associated with drunken behavior of course).
There are different networks for maintaining different identities which can help to an extent. LinkedIn and Plaxo remain notoriously professional while Facebook provides a place for both business and pleasure. What smart users are now realizing is that Facebook also allows users to be segment their lists to separate family from friends and business from pleasure and there are of course the notorious Facebook Fan Pages for creating a separate business identity on the social giant. Even Twitter allows you to segment your followers bringing greater relief to ongoing multiple personality social disorders and Google’s new networking circles require you to put all your connections into circles.
Our suggestions for help with multiple social personality disorders are pretty simple. The first is to get organized. Segment your friends and followers on the various social networks so you can post the right stuff to the right people. The next would be to make sure that the social networking buttons on your website are delivering people to the right online personality for a connection. Your Follow Me button on your business website or blog should lead to your business’s social identity while your personal blog should connect to your personal online profiles.
Social networking doesn’t have to be chaotic, separated and challenging to be effective. Simplify your plan and update your social follow buttons to streamline your online identities.






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